About a year ago, Andy told me that he wanted to “eventually” run for the Sigma Chi Grand Praetor position for the Northern Missouri Province. I asked him when he wanted to do this and he said, “Eventually, a few years from now when the kids are older.” I think I caught him off-guard when I said, “Why not do it now? You want the position. You would be good at it and you know you have my support.” He stared at me for about a minute before he said, “Are you sure?” Well, of course, I was sure. He’s been involved with Sigma Chi in some capacity or another since college and working with the four undergraduate chapters in the Northern Missouri province would be something he would very much enjoy. So, he put out the word to the chapters that he would like to be nominated for the position. As with most Grand Praetor elections, he ran uncontested and was elected at Grand Chapter. I give you now, Andrew Kassel, Grand Praetor for the Northern Missouri Province. Congratulations!
Sweetheart Luncheon
Today, I attended my first Sweetheart Luncheon. This is a luncheon for the “Sweethearts”, the women behind the men of Sigma Chi. This year is the 100th anniversary of the “Sweetheart of Sigma Chi” song and the song was center stage for the luncheon. They gave four copies of the original sheet music to four lucky ladies along with some very nice table favors.
The luncheon was at the original Neiman Marcus store in the historic Zodiac Room. I had a great time! It was so nice to get a chance to talk to the various dynamic women and relax in this setting. As luncheons go, I think this will become a permanent part of my attendance at Sigma Chi Grand Chapter.
Dealey Plaza
We went to Dealey Plaza today. Andy really wanted a picture standing on the Grassy Knoll. All I can say is what a powerful experience and a piece of history that I’ll never forget. I studied and studied and studied the entire assassination and the aftermath. I’ve read more books than I can count on the subject, but it was never really “real” for me until I saw the two marks on the street.
As Andy said, “X marks the spot.” When I saw that first X, I got goose bumps and suddenly I was seeing the whole event in my head. I turned to the Grassy Knoll and saw where Abraham Zapruder was standing on that day. The goose bumps increased and I was riveted to where I was standing. The enormity of it all hit me. That one short moment in time changed the path of the United States. I began to wonder where our country would be today if John F. Kennedy had lived to complete his term as President. How different would the national political scene be today? Heavy subjects flashing through my mind.
We did go through The Sixth Floor Museum and saw the spot where Lee Harvey Oswald was sitting. The entire experience was one of those “goose bump” moments. I’m extremely glad we went. It was a chance to experience a profound moment in America’s history. If any of you are ever in Dallas, go. You won’t be sorry.
Traveling
We left Columbia this morning about 9:30 am for Dallas, TX, and Sigma Chi Grand Chapter. The drive really was not bad at all. It took about ten hours, but would have been closer to nine had we not encountered some construction and an accident. We arrived at the Sheraton Dallas right about 7:30 pm. After checking in, a valet helped us to our room with our luggage. Imagine our surprise after exiting the elevator to see this sign outside our door.
Yes, folks, that *IS* an Executive Suite…and at the stunningly wonderful conference rate of a cheap $99 per night.
Our living room!
Our bedroom!
Packing for Dallas, TX
Impatiens
Father’s Day
Happy Father’s Day! Today began with the kids letting Daddy sleep in a bit. They helped me make coffee so that Daddy could have some when he woke up. They also insisted on helping me make breakfast. Laura selected Breakfast Burritos for this morning’s menu. Next up was mowing the lawn. I’m aware that it’s Father’s Day and he should have the day off, but we leave for Dallas on Wednesday and so mowing was necessary. After mowing though, we ate lunch and then headed out for fishing at Finger Lakes! Fishing was certainly an experience. Laura did manage to catch her first fish ever within a minute of putting her line in the water.
The kids were quite short on listening skills though so after about 90 minutes, we packed up and headed home. We spent the rest of the day eating and relaxing. All in all, a great Father’s Day!
To my husband – I love watching you with our beautiful kids. They both adore you and I always just smile at their reactions to you. Here is to many, many more wonderful Father’s Days! I love you!








